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Can you love an underage girl and not be a paedophile?
Topic Started: Jun 9 2015, 03:26 PM (3,516 Views)
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I remember someone else had trouble with posting the words 'gay' and 'rape'. Maybe it's your browser?
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I think if there's no sexual attraction then by definition they're not a pedophile? "Under age" also leaves some room for it to be Hebephilia or Ephebophilia.
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you can type gay and rape -- it just asks you to make sure that you want to continue with posting with those words in your post.
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Jun 10 2015, 12:07 PM
you can type gay and rape -- it just asks you to make sure that you want to continue with posting with those words in your post.
I did click continue! It still wouldn't let me!

I use Google Chrome on my android smart phone to post here; does anybody else use this and have the same issue?
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I would say yeah you certainly can love an underage person and not be a paedophile.

Just because you might turn 16 or 18 a couple of years before them doesn't suddenly mean a switch in your brain is going to flick a switch and you'll find them unappealing, unless it's only a sexual attraction and they "develop"
And sure their personality might change at some point but they could still be a fantastic person at the time.

Lot of people would say you "should" stop thinking about them like somehow it's suddenly wrong to have feelings for them but so long as they're not acted on physically while said person is a child there's nothing wrong with that at all. Noble of someone to wait really not a lot of people would.


I think it's stupid to just totally outlaw the idea of it, if the older person can wait until they're both adults then that's great. Sometimes two people are just perfect for each other and the age gap just isn't an issue.

Along with that the age difference might be say 4 years which is a HUGE deal but then later nobody particularly gives a f*** if a 21 year old woman marries a 67 year old man, as though the second a person becomes a legal adult they know what they're doing.

Age and/or experience don't really define how responsible a person can be.
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Really, I think it's about sex, consent, and power discrepancy. If a 30 year old man loves a 14 year old, he should not monopolize her time of have sex with her until she can legally consent because while she may not be any more mature as a 17 year old, he at least gave her the chance to make what society considers a legal, competant decision. If it was meant to be, she'll still be around. Consent is important. If you 'love' someone, you'll want them to choose to be with you with a clear mind. We are still developing well into our late teens, so our minds may never be clear until we reach a certain age
And a power discrepancy. Some people have so much experiemce, or stability, or intelligence, that the relationship with someone who lacks any of these things in a big way will seem 'off.' While I see massive power discrepancies in a lot of relationships, and age difference just opens them up to further scrutiny and makes me look for a power difference, which isn't fair to the couple.
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Let me make sure I read this right. Personally, I love my daughter, she's the most important thing in the galaxy to me. I don't think that makes you a pervert or weirdo as long as it's a strictly platonic thing. Like if you thought of the kid like a little sister or a niece to you or something, that's not so weird, you're just compassionate and have a kind heart. Anything else concerns me greatly.
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In a non-familial, non-platonic way? No, not really.
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Jun 11 2015, 01:17 AM
In a non-familial, non-platonic way? No, not really.
Exactly that!
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You think there should be some natural thing where you're incapable of falling in love with a person of a certain age? Those do exist. Hence why most of us can't find our relatives sexually attractive. I'm not sure if it works the same way when it comes to teenagers.


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Jun 11 2015, 01:20 AM
You think there should be some natural thing where you're incapable of falling in love with a person of a certain age? Those do exist. Hence why most of us can't find our relatives sexually attractive. I'm not sure if it works the same way when it comes to teenagers.
You ever been around a Teenager? They're unpleasant things. That should be enough.
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Yeah I usually find them utterly intolerable to be around for more than five minutes. But some are wise beyond their years and don't act like typical teenagers.


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Jun 11 2015, 01:20 AM
You think there should be some natural thing where you're incapable of falling in love with a person of a certain age? Those do exist. Hence why most of us can't find our relatives sexually attractive. I'm not sure if it works the same way when it comes to teenagers.
It's the animal instinct. Attractive and they can breed. Not to sound wrong. But going by animal wildlife. As soon as a girl has her period and her body can have babies then anyone can f*** her and get her pregnant. Similar to how some animals sexually mature at 3 years old.

I'm more on the human side where age play more factors. As soon as I learn an attractive girl is below 17(I'm 19) it's a turn off ASAP.

Like myself. When I was 13-14 I had a full freaking beard. Many girls find me cute(17-32) but as soon as I said my age. It's a turn off. Had it been animal wildlife then anything goes Lol...
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I think that's purely societal though it's a turn off usually due to the negative aspects of going out with someone much younger than you(jail, general hate)
If we didn't have society...I highly doubt there'd be any restraint on what age people feel a female is "eligible"

That's probably why there's no natural mechanism automatically making us not want someone young because if it were up to instinct anything past their first period is game, I guess we haven't been civilized long enough for that to be ironed out genetically.
Considering teen pregnancy rates I doubt that's going to change any time soon...

Age doesn't really matter to attraction which is probably a large part in why paedophile's, hebephiles and the like exist at all. They're weird to us because society just decided that doesn't really change what people are naturally in to.


I feel sorry for them because whenever people see the world "paedophile" they instantly think someone who actively tries to molest children and want to gather the angry mob, even though being a paedophile is just being attracted to them like any normal attraction,

Much like homosexuality it's not inherently negative it's just what the body wants, only with paedophillia if they cross the line they're behind bars for life...until someone stabs them for touching kids.
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